Real Housewives of Orange County star Alexis Bellino hasn't been quiet about the criticism online about her new relationship with John Jansen, 61, who was the ex-boyfriend of co-star Shannon Beador. In an emotional Instagram post, Alexis, 48, fired back at trolls who called her a "creep" and criticized the age gap between her and John, insisting that love knows no bounds and that they owe no one an explanation for their happiness.
Alexis began her post by sharing a romantic photo of herself and John on an intimate evening. She wrote, "I knew I would face criticism as soon as I decided to go public with my relationship, but I never expected to be called a 'creepy person' for dating someone older. Let me be clear: love is not based on age, history, or other people's judgment. It's based on connection, respect, and the joy you bring to each other."
Alexis and John's relationship has been controversial since they went public a few weeks ago. The fact that John Jansen was a longtime boyfriend to fellow RHOC star Shannon Beador has made many fans uncomfortable and feel that the relationship is a bit "sensitive". While some people support the couple, others have criticized Alexis for "intervening" in Shannon and John's relationship despite the fact that the two have broken up.
However, Alexis is undeterred by the criticism. "I didn't steal anyone from anyone," she said in her post. "John and Shannon ended their relationship before we started dating. I respect his past and I always wanted the best for Shannon. But that doesn't mean I have to give up my chance at happiness just because of what other people think."
John, who is known for his low-key personality and low profile, also broke his silence to defend his new girlfriend. In a brief statement, he said: "Alexis and I have a relationship based on mutual respect and understanding. I don't care what other people think. Our lives are ours and we will live them the way we feel happiest."
Along with the criticism, Alexis also received support from many fans and industry friends. Some praised her for being outspoken and not afraid to defend her love. One fan commented on Alexis' post: "You don't have to apologize for being in love. If you're happy, that's all that matters." Another wrote: "No one has the right to judge your life. Live it to the fullest, Alexis!"
However, there are still people who disagree with the couple, especially those who support Shannon Beador. Some people think that Alexis and John going public with their relationship so soon after John split from Shannon is "insensitive" and "disrespectful". One fan of Shannon wrote: "Shannon has been through a lot since her breakup with John. The last thing she needs is to have to deal with her ex dating someone else on the same show."
In response to these comments, Alexis affirmed: "I have no intention of hurting anyone, especially Shannon. I have great respect for her and what she has been through. But I cannot let that stop me from pursuing my own happiness. Life is too short to live for the opinions of others."
With mixed comments from the public, Alexis Bellino and John Jansen's relationship will certainly continue to be a controversial topic in the coming time. However, the two do not seem to let the criticism affect them. Alexis ended her post with an inspirational message: "Love when you can, live when you want, and never let anyone dictate your worth. I am happy, and that is all I need."
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