Less than a year after Tom Schwartz went public with his romance with Sophia Skoro, the Vanderpump Rules alum shared an update on his love life, saying he's not "formally dating anyone."
Tom Schwartz is SURprised that there's so much interest in his dating life.
After all, the Vanderpump Rules alum shared that he isn't seriously involved with anyone special at the moment, seemingly confirming that he and Sophia Skoro have parted ways after less than a year of dating.
"Honestly, I am not formally dating anyone," Tom told Us Weekly in a Feb. 19 interview. "I am just hanging out. So, there is not much to say about my love life.”
In fact, the 42-year-old revealed that he spent Valentine's Day earlier this month doing "nothing."
“I was in Minnesota,” Tom continued, “with one of my first loves: the great state of Minnesota.”
But the reality TV star's update shouldn't come as a total shock. Last month, Tom insisted that he wasn't looking to enter a serious relationship—despite meeting someone who had sparked his interest.
"Dating is like the last thing on my mind," he shared during a Jan. 28 appearance on The LadyGang podcast. "There's someone I really enjoy hanging out with, but it's been the most insane two years of my life."
And Tom—who finalized his divorce from his Vanderpump Rules costar Katie Maloney in 2022 following six years of marriage—provided further insight into why he wasn't ready to fully commit to anyone just yet.
"The prospect of fully falling in love and taking that next step with someone and moving in with someone, maybe getting engaged again and talking about kids, it's daunting," he continued. "I know I'm a grown ass man and I can handle that, my maturity level is on a different level. I've leveled up a little bit. I still have a lot to do."
Photo by Emma McIntyre/WireImageTom first went public with his romance with Sophia in April 2024, when the pair got candid about how they met during a joint appearance on The Viall Files podcast.
"We actually met on a whim at TomTom,” Tom told host Nick Viall at the time. “It’s funny, ironically, around that moment, I made a pledge, not only to myself, but to the universe, that I will not hang out or date. I’m just going to be single and work for the next two years. Then I bumped into her.”
To catch up on the relationship status of more Vanderpump Rules stars, keep reading.
Tommy Garcia/Bravo/NBCU Photo Bank/NBCUniversal via Getty ImagesJax Taylor & Stassi Schroeder
Much of Vanderpump Rules' first season, which debuted 2013, focused on the drama surrounding Jax cheating on Stassi in Las Vegas. And after he hooked up with co-star Kristen Doute on season two, the couple broke up for good.
Instagram/@stassischroederStassi Schroeder & Beau Clark
The VPR alum began dating the casting executive in 2017 while she was still on the show. After she was fired from the series in 2020, Stassi and Beau legally tied the knot in September of that year during the COVID-19 pandemic before welcoming daughter Hartford in January 2021.
The two later held a formal wedding in Italy in May 2022 and welcomed their second child, son Messer, in 2023.
Charles Sykes/Bravo via Getty ImagesJax Taylor & Brittany Cartwright
Jax and Brittany met in 2015 following his breakup from Stassi. After surviving a cheating scandal involving Jax and their former co-star Faith Stowers, he and Brittany got married at a castle in her native Kentucky in 2019. Their wedding special aired on Bravo shortly after.
Jax and Brittany welcomed their first child—son Cruz—in April 2021 a year after they walked away from the show.
Sadly, they announced in February 2024 that they had separated and Brittany had moved out of their house. She officially filed for divorce in August that same year.
Todd Williamson/BravoTom Sandoval & Ariana Madix
Following his breakup from Kristen Doute, Tom and Ariana began dating when she joined the show during filming season three in 2013. The duo proved to be one of VPR's most dependable couples for nine years as they bought a house, adopted dogs and even wrote a cocktail book together.
Because of their stability, fans were shocked when the TomTom co-owner's seven-month affair with their co-star came to light in March 2023, leading to his and Ariana's breakup.
Since the cheating scandal, Tom has credited a lack of intimacy as one of the reasons they drifted away. He also claimed they were separated when news of his cheating went public, though he revealed he and Raquel first kissed in August 2022 long before Ariana found out.
Instagram/@thestrongwaiAriana Madix & Daniel Wai
One month after Ariana broke up with Tom for cheating on her with Raquel, the reality star moved on with fitness trainer Daniel Wai. The two were spotted making out and getting cozy in April 2023 at weekend one of Coachella.
They are still going strong over one year later.
Instagram/@scheanaScheana Shay & Brock Davies
Following her divorce from ex Mike Shay in 2017, Scheana met Brock two years later with friends in San Diego and it was love at first sight. The couple welcomed their first child together—daughter Summer Moon Honey—in April 2021 before tying the knot.
Scheana and Brock's August 2022 Cancún wedding aired during VPR season 10, but she actually revealed on the show's April 2023 episode that they secretly got married (legally) one year prior to the destination ceremony.
Maarten de Boer/E! EntertainmentKatie Maloney & Tom Schwartz
The longtime lovers got married in August 2016 after six years of dating. However, their tumultuous relationship played out on the Bravo series and after years of tension and fighting, Katie had had enough. The duo was together for 12 years in total before Katie decided to divorce the TomTom co-owner in March 2022.
While they initially remained friendly exes, Tom's makeout with Raquel in August 2022 ruined any chances of amicability between the two. During season 10 of VPR, Katie introduced a new love interest, 26-year-old actor Satchel Clendenin, though the two are no longer dating.
Tom is also currently single.
Instagram / James KennedyJames Kennedy & Raquel Leviss
James and Raquel dated for five years—and even got engaged—before breaking up in November 2021. The former beauty queen later credited his anger issues as one of the reasons for their split.
During VPR's season nine reunion, which aired in January 2022, James and Raquel revealed they had barely had sex in the two years leading up to their breakup.
Alberto E. Rodriguez/Getty ImagesJames Kennedy & Ally Lewber
James briefly date Kristen after joining the show during season 3, but the two broke up in 2015.
Just two months after his split from Raquel, James was spotted with a new lady, Ally Lewber, in January 2022 and they made their first official red carpet appearance together the next month.
Ally made her Vanderpump Rules debut on the premiere of season 10 and fans later saw the couple move in together.
Their romance hit a speed bump in December 2024 when James was arrested for domestic vioence after an incident with an unnamed woman. By the next month, the former couple announced they had broken up amid James' legal troubles, which did not result in any formal charges against him.
Bravo / Getty ImagesLala Kent & Randall Emmett
The Bravo star and movie producer called off their engagement in October 2021 after three years together. Before breaking up, they welcomed daughter Ocean in March 2021. Lala later credited their split in part to Randall's alleged cheating, though he's denied having affairs.
During VPR season 10, Lala revealed she hadn't had sex since their breakup, but dove back into the dating pool by hooking up with a guy during a girls trip to Lake Havasu.
Lala is currently still single and mingling, as is Randall.
Instagram/@kristendouteKristen Doute & Luke Broderick
After Sandoval—and her fling with Jax—Kristen dated Brian Carter on and off on the Bravo series before moving on with Alex Menache, who she was with for two years before calling it quits in June 2022.
Kristen found love again soon after that same month. She met Luke Broderick when they served as a bridesmaid and groomsman in their mutual friend's nuptials that summer and have been together ever since. In addition to dating, he regularly co-hosts her podcast Love, Sex and What Else Matters.
The pair announced their engagement in September 2024.
Instagram/@kristinakellyKristina Kelly & Max Ville
Kristina, who has made multiple appearances on the show since season two, welcomed her first child—baby boy River—with partner Max Ville in March 2023. The two have been together for over 12 years.
Nicole Weingart/Bravo/Instagram/@sophiaskoroTom Schwartz & Sophia Skoro
Schwartz finally committed to his first serious relationship since his divorce when he started dating 23-year-old Sophia Skoro.
"We love each other," he admitted in March 2024, adding of the vingtage clothing busniess owner, "One of the coolest human beings on earth. The baddest b---h alive. She's got this unconventional sense of humor. She's sharp as hell, super successful.
