“This isn’t about having the best doctors” – Melissa Gorga slammed for ‘tone-deaf’ comment on Dolores Catania’s heart scare as fans accuse her of missing the moment and centering herself in someone else’s crisis - suong

“Read the room, Melissa — this was about survival, not status.”

Melissa Gorga is facing harsh backlash online after leaving what many fans are calling a “tone-deaf” and “superficial” comment on Dolores Catania’s emotional post about her recent health scare.

Earlier this week, The Real Housewives of New Jersey star Dolores Catania shared a deeply personal update, revealing she had been diagnosed with Atrial Fibrillation (Afib) — a serious heart condition that caused her months of anxiety, chest pain, and sleepless nights before she finally sought medical help.

“I’m sharing this because I want you to listen to your body,” Dolores wrote in the post that quickly went viral. “That racing or fluttering in your chest — it’s your body trying to tell you something.”

While many of Dolores' co-stars and fans flooded the comment section with heartfelt messages of support and concern, Melissa Gorga’s response struck a different chord.

“We need our Dolo♥️🙏🏼 you always have the best doctors!” Melissa commented under the post — a message that, within minutes, drew an avalanche of criticism.

Fans immediately pounced, accusing Melissa of missing the point entirely. “This isn’t about having access to elite care,” one user replied. “It’s about knowing when to stop, listen to your body, and not brush things off — something many women without access to ‘the best doctors’ can’t afford to do.”

Another comment read, “Tone-deaf much? Dolores just opened up about thinking she was having a heart attack while driving and Melissa makes it about her having great doctors?”

Even more damning were comparisons to past seasons, where Melissa has often been accused of appearing out-of-touch with the realities of working-class families — something fans say is especially galling when juxtaposed with Dolores’ humble roots and lifelong dedication to her community.

“Melissa is always trying to flex, even in someone else’s health crisis,” one fan commented. “This was Dolores being vulnerable. This was not the moment for another 'Gorga glow-up' energy.”

The backlash spread quickly to Reddit and Twitter, where Bravo fans debated whether Melissa’s comment was simply thoughtless or part of a bigger pattern. “It’s not that she meant harm — but it’s that she can’t help centering herself or clout-dropping. It’s always about the optics for Melissa,” a top-voted Reddit post read.

Interestingly, some users pointed out that Margaret Josephs — known for her sass and sharp tongue — had a far more sensitive comment: “So happy you are ok!! We love you and your big heart!! So important to share 🙏❤️” — a tone many believed Melissa should’ve mirrored.

So far, Melissa has not responded to the criticism or clarified her comment. However, sources say she was “surprised by the backlash” and privately feels “misunderstood.”

But for many fans, the damage is done. As one follower summarized: “This was a moment for compassion, not compliments about medical privilege.”

While Dolores continues to recover post-procedure and plans to use her platform to raise awareness about heart health, the moment has inadvertently opened up new fault lines in an already fractured cast — and placed Melissa Gorga’s social sensitivity back under a microscope.

In a franchise where every word carries weight, even a well-meaning comment can become a public relations landmine — and once again, Melissa Gorga finds herself at the center of it.