Erin Lichy Sparks Debate Among RHONY Cast After Sharing Photo of Husband's 'Extraordinary' Penis-quang

After receiving mixed responses from her fellow Housewives, Erin wondered, "Am I being disrespectful? Now I'm going to feel bad about this?"

Erin Lichy has "meat mail" and she isn't afraid to give her girlfriends a sneak peek!

In PEOPLE's exclusive sneak peek at the Dec. 17 episode of The Real Housewives of New York City, Erin's willingness to share her husband Abe's "d--- pic" with the group sparks controversial debate. While some laughed and noted the picture was "incredible," others weren't fans of Erin's decision to share her husband's intimate photos.

One by one, each housewife reacts to Abe's nudes in their own conversation with cameras.

"I don't have any d--- pics of David. I always try and get meat mail from him, but he never sends them to me," Sai de Silva laughs while Jessel Taank admits, "If the tables were turned and Abe was going around showing pictures of Erin's giant c---. Like, I don't know, I would personally be mortified!"

Rebecca Minkoff, on the other hand, has other questions about the picture in question, "It leads me to imagine like, was it hard? Was it soft?"

"I don't want to see Abe's d---!" Racquel Chevremont says. "Even when I was straight, I wouldn't want to see somebody else's husband's d---. I don't want that image every time I see Abe. How would I erase that from my mind? I just can't."

While Jenna Lyons and Brynn Whitfield admit it was "fun" and "extraordinary," Ubah Hassan interjects and tells the group she doesn't "want" to see the photo when Rebecca asks if Erin would share it with the rest of the class.

"I absolutely don't want to. I respect Abe too much," Ubah adds, which makes Erin question, "Am I being disrespectful? Now I'm going to feel bad about this?"

"I would be dumped if I showed [my boyfriend] Oliver's d---," Ubah continues.

In her own confessional interview, Erin admits that she was taken aback by Ubah's "intense reaction."

"I don't know why my personal situation with my husband and what I've shown, is making her so upset," she explains. "Now I'm like, questioning myself, should I not have shown my girlfriends a picture of a d--- pic? I'm a girl's girl. We do this stuff. This isn't such a big deal. Relax."

The Real Housewives of New York City airs Tuesdays at 9 p.m. ET on Bravo.