Alexis Bellino had a breakdown when she learned Shannon Beador didn't accept her 'olive branch' and wasn't inviting her to the group trip to London on Thursday's episode of The Real Housewives Of Orange County on Bravo.
'I'm extending an olive branch and I'm still f***ing getting always s*** on,' Alexis said after failing to receive an invitation to celebrate Shannon's 60th birthday.
Katie Ginella, 40, and Jennifer Pedranti had gone over to Alexis's house to try to break the news to her gently that she wasn't going to be invited on the group trip.
Alexis, 47, with Shannon's ex- John Janssen and now her boyfriend upstairs, asked if they saw the flowers she sent Shannon and if they were going to move forward. Katie told her no. Katie told her to look at her phone and read the text message Shannon sent her. The message from Shannon said Alexis was not invited on the trip.
'Now I'm f***ing done,' Alexis said.
Katie tried to explain that it was hard for Shannon to move on because John was suing her.
'If she didn't borrow the money and she paid it back, we wouldn't be in this situation,' Alexis said.
'I didn't want to take legal action but my hands were tied as I was days away from crossing the statute of limitations on being able to do anything legally,' John said in a confessional with Alexis at his side. 'She 100 percent knows these were loans. I have proof of that.'
'Shannon has an interesting relationship with the truth,' John added.
Alexis said it was a legal battle being played out in the media. Alexis said Shannon wanted to 'put a muzzle on John.'
'Not going to happen,' Alexis said.
Alexis started crying and told them she didn't want to be around the group.
'I'm done,' Alexis said, opening the door for them to leave.
Alexis broke down crying after they left.
'I have tried so hard,' Alexis said. 'F*** them. '
The season 18 episode titled You Are Cordially Not Invited opened with Tamra Judge, 57, walking out of Katie's couples dinner after arguing with Jenn and her boyfriend Ryan Boyajian,
'She knows he's a piece of s***,' Tamra told Katie as she was leaving. 'Ask her about the FBI. And now there is a lawsuit going on by the FBI about illegal gambling?'
'Shut up,' Katie said in disbelief over the claims made by Tamra against Ryan,
'He's a horrible human being,' Tamra said.
Tamra's husband Eddie, 51, said goodbye to everyone, even Jenn's boyfriend Ryan.
'I'm sorry Jen,' Katie said. 'Tamra is very upset.'
Katie said Tamra said to ask Eddie about the FBI. Eddie said one of his closest friends had been going through something.
'She must be talking about Matt,' Eddie said.
Eddie said Matt was a professional gambler and also has a bookie business but that he wasn't able to talk about it.
'So you would just go with him?' Emily Simpson asked.
Ryan said yes.
'Ryan goes to Vegas like it's his job,' Emily said. 'His career is going to Vegas.'
The next day Heather Dubrow, 55, and Katie met Shannon for her birthday at an outdoor store.
'It's my 60th birthday but birthdays have never been a big day for me,' Shannon said in a confessional.
Shannon told them that her ex John gave People magazine his lawsuit against her.
'This isn't about money,' Shannon said.
'No, he wants the non-disparagement,' Heather said.
'It's about him trashing me,' Shannon said.
Shannon said she just wanted to move on.
Heather said she left things 'terribly' with Emily Simpson, 48, and hadn't talked to her at all. Katie said Emily told her that she felt she had worked so hard but that Heather still sees her as the 'big girl.'
'So Emily has just talked to everyone about this, but me,' Heather said in a confessional. 'I would have loved the opportunity to talk to her about this and make her feel better about this. I think she is gorgeous.'
Emily went over to visit Gina Kirschenheiter, 40, at her house. Emily said Katie's dinner was a 's*** show' and that Tamra was 'all out of sorts.'
'She can't keep doing this where it's like because you had three martinis, you can say things that are awful,' Gina said.
Gina said she thought Shannon's birthday tea celebration would be awkward because she felt Heather was mad at her for taking Emily's side. Emily said she wasn't trying to attack Heather about the fashion show.
Emily later took an exoneree named Anthony to shop for a new suit. She was still doing work with the Innocence Center. He said he was arrested when he was 15 and spent 18 years in prison for a crime he said he did not commit.
Katie took her family out for Korean food. Katie said she decided for her 40th birthday to take her family to Korea after they located her biological mother in a small farming town where she was born.
'When you're adopted your life is this puzzle and the bottom right corner is missing,' Katie said.
Shannon and the other women gathered for Shannon's 60th birthday tea party. Heather walked into the tea house and asked Emily if she could talk to her alone.
'Ugh, no,' Emily said. 'I wanted to talk to you friend to friend. I didn't want to go home crying and feeling like s***.'
Emily and Heather sat aside and Emily explained how she felt that Heather didn't see that she had lost 40 lbs over the past year when she gave her oversized clothing.
'You know I think you look fantastic,' Heather said.
'It always hurts to feel that you are bigger than everyone else,' Emily said.
'I hear you,' Heather said.
Heather said the only reason she chose Emily and Tamra to wear the oversized motorcycle jacket for them to wear was because they were both badasses.
'If any moment you would have told me I would have whipped something else up,' Heather said.
The two hugged and said they loved each other.
Tamra arrived at the tea and told Jenn that she wanted to apologize to her and that they could talk more later. Shannon arrived and told each of them to open up their gifts, which were mini London phone booth tea boxes. Shannon then revealed she was inviting them all to London.
'I've never been to London,' Jenn said.
Heather gave her a pair of $760 Hermes sandals. A giant floral bouquet with an olive branch arrived and Shannon opened up the card and it was from Alexis.
'It says ''Happy 60th. I genuinely hope this olive branch can bring us a fresh start as you begin this new decade'',' Shannon said. 'I appreciate it. …But it's nine weeks too late and there have been a lot of unkind things done and I have no interest in being friendly with her.'
Shannon said she offered John everything that he wanted and then his answer was no.
'John's trying to smear me,' Shannon said.
Shannon said exposing herself to Alexis has not been healthy and she needed to create healthy boundaries for herself. Emily asked if she was going to send a thank you to Alexis.
Shannon said she had already pre-written a text that she read to the group.
'Hello Alexis. It's Shannon Beador. I'm hosting a trip to Europe with my friends and I just wanted to make it clear that you are not invited.'
Heather told her 'it's a little harsh' and Emily urged her to send it.
The Real Housewives of Orange County will return next Thursday on Bravo.
